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ladycordis

ladycordis:

You don’t need to know everything now. You don’t need to be perfect, unbelievably wise, or entirely healed right now. All you need is to just do your best. Growth and healing will come naturally with new experiences and relationships. Don’t try to rush your healing or let this goal completely consume your life. You are not an endless project for self improvement, you are a human being who will make mistakes and have new experiences and fail and try again and love a lot and laugh super hard and be a little scared of the uncertain or discouraged and kinda sad sometimes. Let yourself flourish and live— even if it means letting go a little.

blissful-ddream

nothingbutloveforyou:

i want the small but significant things. the goodbye and hello kisses, knowing how they like their tea/ coffee, taking care of them when they’re sick, „i got that thing you mentioned“, falling asleep in each other’s arms and them being the first thing you see when you wake up, lazily making out, being a shoulder to cry on, cooking together and for each other, making memories together … sharing our lives until we can’t tell where one ends and the other begins

ladycordis

ladycordis:

This is your reminder that you don’t need anything fancy to make a good day. Just a soothing shower, a nice meal, and a little fun activity. Don’t overlook the little nice things in life. They’re right in front of you. you just have to be the one to notice them. It’s your first time experiencing today: let it be fun and enthusiastic!!! It’s your first time being the self that you are today— i’m so excited for you!!! I love you so much <3

ladycordis

ladycordis:

You don’t need to be perfect or entirely healed to deserve love and care from others. Genuine growth cannot happen only in isolation: growth and awareness happen with new experiences. Relationships are meant to be mutually healing, caring, and supportive experiences. Don’t shrink back into yourself and promise that you’ll return to the world once you’re more healed or a “better” version of yourself. You deserve to be cared for, loved, and held close RIGHT NOW. Why? Because you’re a human being. You are part of a community and that is the goal of having one: loving you even when it is hard for you to love yourself.